The Remains of the Day (1993 Movie)
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The Remains of the Day (1993 Movie)

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This week we’re having our hearts broken by a bad case of British butler-itis, as Kim and Alice sob through The Remains of the Day. We’re learning about the politics of the aristocracy, strict servant etiquette and why you shouldn’t learn the facts of life from Anthony Hopkins.

Sound Engineer: Keith Nagle
Editor: Helen Hamilton / Keith Nagle
Producer: Helen Hamilton

If you enjoy this podcast, come with us on a romp through the Regency era with our sister podcast, Austen After Dark. Listen to all episodes now.


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Send us a text

This week we’re having our hearts broken by a bad case of British butler-itis, as Kim and Alice sob through The Remains of the Day. We’re learning about the politics of the aristocracy, strict servant etiquette and why you shouldn’t learn the facts of life from Anthony Hopkins.

Sound Engineer: Keith Nagle
Editor: Helen Hamilton / Keith Nagle
Producer: Helen Hamilton

If you enjoy this podcast, come with us on a romp through the Regency era with our sister podcast, Austen After Dark. Listen to all episodes now.


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

[00:00:00] Hello and welcome to Fetch the Smelling Salts, I'm Alice.

[00:00:13] And I'm Kim and this is our podcast all about historical dramas from movies and TV shows

[00:00:18] and mini series from everywhere and all around the world.

[00:00:22] And this week we are back in England where I live.

[00:00:26] This is probably one of the most English-y of English-British period dramas.

[00:00:31] Oh it's so English-y but I love it.

[00:00:33] I love it.

[00:00:34] And we are doing Remains of the Day.

[00:00:38] This is our second Merchant Ivory joint that we're talking about.

[00:00:43] Before we get started can I just tell you something?

[00:00:46] So I realized today that I am a bad parent.

[00:00:51] Can I tell you why?

[00:00:53] We got a message from our nursery, both of our kids are in nursery currently and we

[00:00:59] got a message on our nursery's app this evening from the nursery manager saying that don't

[00:01:07] be alarmed but some of the children today were able to escape.

[00:01:12] How?

[00:01:13] How are the children able to escape?

[00:01:16] I don't know.

[00:01:18] I'm imagining it was like a great escape kind of situation.

[00:01:22] I know that it took some doing because there were several barriers, like points of being

[00:01:28] stopped.

[00:01:29] Like a Shawshank redemption and someone was digging a hole and shaking his leg to get

[00:01:34] the soil out.

[00:01:35] Yeah, there was definitely digging involved.

[00:01:37] I'm guessing that it took weeks.

[00:01:40] Okay.

[00:01:41] Now I don't know but I don't know because my child wasn't involved.

[00:01:45] Yeah, I was going to say.

[00:01:47] So there were four kids who escaped the nursery and Alice Jr. was not one of them

[00:01:51] and the first and only reaction I had when I saw this message was, thank God it wasn't

[00:01:59] my kid.

[00:02:00] Yeah, obviously.

[00:02:01] And also a little bit of like, lol, I wonder who great escaped but it was much more serious

[00:02:07] than that and now we have a parenting WhatsApp group and it's blowing up with people saying

[00:02:12] that this is a really serious situation and they were all terrified and I feel really

[00:02:18] bad and I think I might be a bad person and a bad parent because I only cared that my kid

[00:02:26] wasn't the one who was going to escape.

[00:02:27] Well no, you're a parent.

[00:02:28] Like digging.

[00:02:29] That's all that I was going to say.

[00:02:30] As you know as Alice Jr.'s godmother, all I cared was was he there?

[00:02:36] No, great.

[00:02:37] Okay, all is fine.

[00:02:38] I mean he can get the low down, he can get the scoop from everybody else when he

[00:02:40] goes back and he can find out what happened but I don't want him involved in this.

[00:02:45] Now I know that seems unrelated to the film that we're discussing because it is but I think

[00:02:50] we can connect it somehow.

[00:02:53] There is, ah at the end of the film which we'll get to there is an element of escaping

[00:02:59] and longing to escape.

[00:03:00] There you go.

[00:03:01] Yeah, so we'll bring it back.

[00:03:02] We'll bring it all back.

[00:03:03] Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[00:03:04] Speaking of tangential connections, I have something to say.

[00:03:10] I am very proud of myself because you know I'm pretty sucky at having themed

[00:03:15] drinks right?

[00:03:16] Sometimes I do it sometimes I don't but today I'm drinking wine from, yes where?

[00:03:22] Oxford?

[00:03:23] Mm-mm.

[00:03:24] Austria.

[00:03:25] Okay.

[00:03:26] And oh wait, wait, wait, wait.

[00:03:29] Austria, do you know who is Austrian?

[00:03:32] No, I don't know who is Austrian.

[00:03:35] Hitler was Austrian.

[00:03:37] Okay.

[00:03:38] And Hitler doesn't directly feature in this movie.

[00:03:43] He is not a character in this film.

[00:03:44] He is not a direct character but there is a strong element.

[00:03:48] He's off, he's off, off, off camera.

[00:03:51] He's off camera, somewhere.

[00:03:52] Yeah, he's there.

[00:03:53] He features very strongly.

[00:03:54] There we go people.

[00:03:55] We are doing a war movie but what I love about this movie is that it doesn't directly

[00:04:03] engage you know it's not like war battle scenes in your face things because those

[00:04:08] things really upset me so I don't really like watching war movies like that.

[00:04:14] I do understand the importance of the place that they play and the part that they play

[00:04:18] and stuff but I personally do not enjoy them.

[00:04:22] You're more of an imitation game than a saving private Ryan.

[00:04:25] Yes.

[00:04:26] And a fan.

[00:04:27] Exactly, it's more like the behind the scenes things which are like how war affects

[00:04:31] people.

[00:04:32] Yeah.

[00:04:33] You know?

[00:04:34] Yeah.

[00:04:35] So I'm interested in that.

[00:04:36] It makes me really sad but I can deal with that level of sadness.

[00:04:41] There is definitely a subgenre of period dramas in which you have overeducated, very wealthy

[00:04:49] British people who are engaging in the war in a very non-direct way maybe by helping

[00:04:59] the allies maybe in this case not so much by helping the allies.

[00:05:04] Exactly.

[00:05:05] Okay.

[00:05:06] Should we get into the summary and then we can stop alluding to things and then we can just

[00:05:12] get into it.

[00:05:13] All right.

[00:05:14] Remains of the day, a merchandise re-film from 1993.

[00:05:18] So the film centers around Darlington Hall in Oxfordshire and the lives of Mr. Stevens,

[00:05:24] the butler played by Anthony Hopkins, Ms. Keaton the housekeeper played by Emma Thompson

[00:05:31] and Lord Darlington played by James Fox.

[00:05:34] The action of the film goes back and forth in time between the mid-30s when Darlington

[00:05:40] Hall is in its heyday and Lord Darlington is a key player in European international affairs

[00:05:47] and the late 1950s when Lord Darlington has died and the much reduced Darlington Hall

[00:05:53] has been purchased by American retired congressman Mr. Lewis.

[00:05:58] So I'm going to be going back and forth.

[00:06:01] Oh and Lewis is played by Christopher Reed.

[00:06:04] Oh, beautiful.

[00:06:05] That's heartbreaking.

[00:06:06] And he plays at some points in the film, he plays older and that makes me sad because

[00:06:11] it reminds us of what we were robbed of.

[00:06:14] In the 1950s, aging butler Mr. Stevens has received a letter from Mrs. Ben who was formerly

[00:06:21] Ms. Kenton when she was the housekeeper at Darlington Hall.

[00:06:25] I'm going to call her Mrs. Ben when she's in the 50s and Ms. Kenton when she's

[00:06:31] in the 30s.

[00:06:32] She's basically the only woman character we're going to talk about so hopefully it won't

[00:06:37] be confusing.

[00:06:38] In the letter Mrs. Ben says she was sorry to hear that Lord Darlington had died and

[00:06:44] she was relieved to know that Darlington Hall had been purchased by Mr. Lewis whom

[00:06:48] she recalls had been a guest there in 1935.

[00:06:53] She also tells Mr. Stevens that she has left her husband Mr. Ben and I wasn't

[00:06:58] too clear on this but it sounds like she left him for the first time, for the second

[00:07:03] time.

[00:07:05] And she's staying at her friend's boarding house in Clevedon in the West Country.

[00:07:10] At the urging of his new employer Mr. Lewis, Mr. Stevens decides to go visit Mrs. Ben

[00:07:15] in the West Country and Mr. Lewis insists that he take the car an old Daimler.

[00:07:22] Mr. Stevens' idea is to ask Mrs. Ben to return to Darlington Hall to be the housekeeper again.

[00:07:29] As Mr. Stevens embarks on his trip we hear more narration of his letters to Mrs. Ben and

[00:07:34] we dive into the past.

[00:07:37] On the day she arrived at Darlington Hall in 1935 Lord Darlington was entertaining some

[00:07:42] friends for a hunt and Mr. Stevens recalls it's perhaps the last day he ever saw

[00:07:47] his Lord happy.

[00:07:49] Back then she was Ms. Kenton and she was taken on as housekeeper because the former housekeeper

[00:07:54] had run off with the underbutler.

[00:07:57] And to replace the underbutler, Stevens hired his own father who used to be the butler

[00:08:02] at another great house.

[00:08:04] Mr. Stevens and Ms. Kenton seem to start out as enemies.

[00:08:09] He underestimates her because of her age and he's a bit sanctimonious.

[00:08:14] He goes on a bit about the dignity of one's position and that grates on her.

[00:08:20] Soon after they're both hired Ms. Kenton notices that Mr. Stevens Sr aka Daddy Stevens is forgetful

[00:08:28] and Mr. Stevens often has to cover for him but he refuses to admit that he's covering

[00:08:34] for him which really takes Ms. Kenton off.

[00:08:37] They get that whole scene where she's insisting that Nicknack was replaced in the wrong place.

[00:08:45] Look at the Chinaman!

[00:08:47] The Chinaman, yes.

[00:08:48] Everyone is preparing for a very important conference that is set to take place at Darlington

[00:08:53] with powerful Englishmen as well as delegates coming from France, Germany and America to

[00:08:59] discuss peace in the post-war period.

[00:09:03] As Lord Darlington and his rich pals are discussing the visit, Dad Stevens comes along with a big

[00:09:10] tray of silver tea things and he trips over some flagstones and he falls and he cuts his

[00:09:17] head on the way down.

[00:09:19] After this incident, Lord Darlington tells Stevens that his dad can't be around the

[00:09:23] foreign delegates because the conference is too important so Dad Stevens is demoted

[00:09:29] to like a roving duster and mopper with like a heart.

[00:09:34] Sorry.

[00:09:35] And that apron, how dare you?

[00:09:37] That broke my heart.

[00:09:38] I know.

[00:09:39] He was taking it so seriously too.

[00:09:41] He's like, this is my mop.

[00:09:43] I'll get that dirt.

[00:09:44] He's like, I'm going to polish those doorknobs.

[00:09:47] Oh yeah.

[00:09:48] My life depended on it.

[00:09:49] Now Lord Darlington also confides in Stevens that he's been determined to lend Germany

[00:09:55] a helping hand ever since he served in the Great War because he had a friend on the other

[00:10:00] side and he felt that the Treaty of Versailles was so unfair that it caused his friend's

[00:10:06] death by suicide.

[00:10:09] And we start to sympathize with him.

[00:10:11] We think these are noble motivations.

[00:10:14] You don't seem like a dick.

[00:10:17] Also at exactly 34 minutes and 57 seconds, we get a pheasant sighting.

[00:10:22] But it's not great because it's like a truck full of dead pheasants because they're all going

[00:10:27] to get roasted.

[00:10:30] People on our Instagram have been sending me pictures and videos of pheasants sometimes

[00:10:35] and that makes me so happy.

[00:10:37] Please continue to do that.

[00:10:39] Also throwback to something I've mentioned on a previous episode, which is that I won't

[00:10:44] eat pheasant because the one time I ate it when I was working at that place in

[00:10:50] Oxford, I bit down on some shots.

[00:10:52] I got a shot and chipped my tooth.

[00:10:54] Pheasants' revenge.

[00:10:55] There was a Gossved Park episode, which actually is kind of relevant in a way to this.

[00:11:01] If you think about the whole upstairs downstairs.

[00:11:03] Yeah, we can definitely discuss that.

[00:11:06] The conference arrives and so do the delegates including Congressman Lewis and a French delegate

[00:11:11] who is suffering from terrible blisters on his feet.

[00:11:14] So this conference is starting and in the midst of all that, we also learned that

[00:11:19] Lord Darlington's godson who is named Cardinal, played by Hugh Grant, he is getting married and

[00:11:27] he's the secretary at the conference.

[00:11:30] And Lord Darlington asks Stevens to take this opportunity to explain the facts of life

[00:11:37] to him before he gets married because he feels that he won't have time.

[00:11:44] Yeah, and he somehow thinks that this 20-something year old man has never had sex before?

[00:11:51] I mean, I believe that based on the conversation that actually happened between Cardinal and Stevens.

[00:11:58] Well, the conversation happens because Stevens just doesn't know how to get to the point.

[00:12:03] Like, I mean, I don't blame Cardinal for kind of really thinking that Stevens was

[00:12:07] really talking about the actual birds and the actual bees and nature.

[00:12:12] The glories of nature.

[00:12:13] What is this scene?

[00:12:15] Why is the scene in this film?

[00:12:17] It's kind of like just to...

[00:12:18] Well, okay.

[00:12:20] I'm not complaining.

[00:12:21] It's wonderful.

[00:12:22] I mean, obviously there's a little bit of comment relief, but then there's also,

[00:12:25] I guess it's all coming together to show you the kind of person Stevens is, right?

[00:12:30] That's the thing.

[00:12:31] He cannot get to the point that he cannot cross this bridge.

[00:12:36] He can't just get to it, you know?

[00:12:38] He gets really near to something, but he can't take that final step.

[00:12:44] Sorry, I'm gonna go on about this later, but yeah.

[00:12:47] Okay, so after that beautiful conversation, we're at the conference and there's a lot of chat

[00:12:54] about re-arming the Germans and allowing them to do military things, which is a bit sus.

[00:13:00] Yeah.

[00:13:01] And the same day, this first day of the conference,

[00:13:04] Dad Stevens is taken ill when he's pushing his cleaning cart.

[00:13:08] The doctor comes to see him and the doctor's very helpful diagnosis is,

[00:13:13] he's not so good.

[00:13:14] Yeah, that's it.

[00:13:15] He doesn't tell baby Stevens like what to do to help his dad or anything.

[00:13:19] He just goes, yep, sorry, not great.

[00:13:21] It's not so good.

[00:13:22] It's like, okay, now what?

[00:13:24] Like he's in bed lying on his back.

[00:13:27] I think that's all anyone can do.

[00:13:28] He's got his blankets tucked up to his chin.

[00:13:31] He's there.

[00:13:32] He's dying ready.

[00:13:34] Period drama death pose.

[00:13:35] He's clearly dying because he's very old and has lived a hard life of work.

[00:13:42] The conference goes on and on the last day of the conference, Dad Stevens is on his deathbed

[00:13:48] and he calls Mr. Stevens to him and tells him,

[00:13:52] I fell out of love with your mother when I found her carrying on,

[00:13:56] but you're a good son and I hope I've been a good father to you.

[00:14:02] Now when Keith and I watched this, he said that he thought that Daddy Stevens was confessing

[00:14:08] that he wasn't Stevens's real father.

[00:14:10] Oh.

[00:14:12] I didn't quite get that.

[00:14:14] I suppose it's possible.

[00:14:15] But I was more focused on the fact that Stevens could not reply to this whatsoever.

[00:14:24] He just said he was busy and he had work to be carrying on with

[00:14:27] and that they would talk in the morning.

[00:14:29] I think knowing full well that they would not talk in the morning.

[00:14:32] That's what I was focused on too, the interactions between them rather than what was actually said.

[00:14:37] The two Stevens were very similar and they were bonding on being this like Stoic butlers, you know?

[00:14:44] Stoic butler duo.

[00:14:46] Exactly, we call each other Mr. Stevens.

[00:14:48] Mr. Stevens, yes, yes, you know?

[00:14:51] But now even Daddy Stevens is breaking that Stoic butler kind of facade.

[00:14:57] It's not facade but you know what I mean?

[00:14:59] He's given it the old human tribe.

[00:15:03] At that evening's dinner, the delegate from Germany says that they desire only peace and

[00:15:09] France seems on board and calls Germany a good old friend.

[00:15:14] But the American delegate Mr. Lewis is more suspicious and warns Lord Darlington and

[00:15:19] the other men present, you need professionals to run your affairs because you're all

[00:15:25] amateurs and you're totally out of touch with reality.

[00:15:28] Where's the lie?

[00:15:30] Miss Kenton pulls Mr. Stevens out during this dinner and tells him that his dad has passed

[00:15:37] away and because he can't step away from the dining room, she offers to go and close

[00:15:45] his eyes.

[00:15:46] And when Lord Darlington later asks Stevens if he's all right, he says, a little tired

[00:15:53] perhaps.

[00:15:54] Like he can't or he won't, right?

[00:15:56] That's the thing.

[00:15:57] He keeps hiding behind these duties.

[00:16:01] And he says that his father would have wanted him to return to work.

[00:16:05] That might have been true but it also doesn't seem to matter.

[00:16:10] It's not the point.

[00:16:12] In the 1950s, Mr. Stevens is on his road trip and he stops at a shop to get some

[00:16:17] post from Mrs. Ben.

[00:16:19] And when he and the shopkeeper strike up a conversation and the shopkeeper questions

[00:16:24] him, he denies ever knowing Lord Darlington, which is a little bit shocking considering

[00:16:30] his proposed loyalty.

[00:16:33] Reading Mrs. Ben's letter takes us right back to the past and the ramifications

[00:16:37] of the conference.

[00:16:38] In the 1930s, two young German women come to work as servants at Darlington Hall

[00:16:45] and it's evident that their Jewish refugees send away by their parents to escape

[00:16:49] Nazi persecution.

[00:16:51] Lord Darlington also invites an unpleasant man called Sir Jeffrey who brings along some

[00:16:57] black shirts and his valet, Mr. Ben, who is played by Tim Piggotsmith, who I don't

[00:17:05] know if you clocked this, plays Mr. Hale in North and South.

[00:17:10] I didn't know.

[00:17:11] Nope, nope.

[00:17:12] Not clocked at all.

[00:17:14] This is Mr. Hale, 10 years younger.

[00:17:17] Oh wow.

[00:17:19] And he and Miss Kenton evidently know each other.

[00:17:22] Sir Jeffrey has a really gross love of fascists and it has nothing to do with the Treaty

[00:17:29] of Versailles being unfair.

[00:17:31] He just really likes them.

[00:17:34] Lord Darlington then reads some Nazi shit in a Nazi book and he decides to sack his

[00:17:43] Jewish refugee mates.

[00:17:45] So in case you're wondering, the book that Lord Darlington is reading from is called

[00:17:52] The Foundations of the 19th Century by some asshole called Houston Stewart Chamberlain

[00:17:59] and we can already tell it's a bullshit book, promotes racism, anti-Semitism and was just

[00:18:07] part of the Nazi talking points at the time.

[00:18:11] But it works on him, so it convinces him to dismiss his two maids and Mr. Stephens tries

[00:18:16] to advocate for them saying that they're good workers and they're very clean and everything

[00:18:21] and he likes them but there's nothing he can really do.

[00:18:25] Miss Kenton is outraged to hear this and she says it will be a sin if they're dismissed

[00:18:30] because they might get deported back to Germany and she says she'll quit if they

[00:18:36] leave but in the end they're dismissed and she doesn't quit because she says that

[00:18:40] she has nowhere to go and she's a coward.

[00:18:43] Stephens seems to want to comfort her and says that she's extremely important to the house.

[00:18:52] So close.

[00:18:53] In the 1950s, Stephens runs out of petrol and he has to walk to a nearby pub where he

[00:18:59] spends the night.

[00:19:00] Everyone there is quite impressed to hear that he met Mr. Churchill and Mr. Eden in

[00:19:06] his unofficial role in foreign affairs in the early 1930s and in the morning a man

[00:19:12] called Dr. Carlisle offers to give him lift to get petrol.

[00:19:15] Along the way, Dr. Carlisle asks Stephens if he's a man servant.

[00:19:21] He says he's the butler at Darlington Hall and Dr. Carlisle says wasn't there a

[00:19:25] Lord Darlington involved in all of that appeasement business that got us into

[00:19:29] the war?

[00:19:31] He's alluding to the fact that he was among those who tried to make a deal

[00:19:34] with Hitler and then after the war he tried to sue a newspaper for libel when

[00:19:39] they said that he was a Nazi sympathizer and he lost the libel suit.

[00:19:43] Stephens denies knowing him at first but then admits that he did and Lord

[00:19:49] Darlington was a good man who just got taken in.

[00:19:52] Stephens never states his own opinion on Nazis or appeasement or anything but

[00:19:57] he says that he made his own mistake and he's trying to set it right.

[00:20:01] Now Stephens is back on the road and we're back in his memory,

[00:20:05] edging closer to the start of World War II.

[00:20:08] We see a scene in which one of Lord Darlington's friends makes a point of

[00:20:12] humiliating Stephens by asking him these complicated foreign policy questions

[00:20:18] in front of a room of chuckling men sitting around smoking cigars.

[00:20:22] And all Stephens can say is I'm sorry sir,

[00:20:26] I am unable to be of assistance in this matter.

[00:20:29] I get seen man, oh my god.

[00:20:32] It's like such built fucking douchebags.

[00:20:35] So mad.

[00:20:37] Like anyone even someone who studies politics could answer a question like that on the spot.

[00:20:44] You know what I think it's infuriating.

[00:20:45] Exactly, no it's like they knew.

[00:20:47] They knew they were putting it on the spot right?

[00:20:50] I hate this, I've seen this happen in real life.

[00:20:52] Like that's why I hate this.

[00:20:54] Yeah I mean that's why I hated it so much.

[00:20:56] Yeah.

[00:20:57] So one upshot is Lord Darlington is finally starting to realize his friends are gaping

[00:21:01] bum holes and he decides he wants to try to get his Jewish maids back to Darlington.

[00:21:09] But Stephens says that at the time they were dismissed he tried to get them a job somewhere

[00:21:13] else but he could only get a job for one of them and they didn't want to be separated.

[00:21:18] So he doesn't know what happened to them.

[00:21:20] Stephens talks to Miss Kenton about it and says he was very distressed about

[00:21:24] them being dismissed in the first place but she says she had no idea that he felt that way

[00:21:30] because he always hides his feelings.

[00:21:33] Later Miss Kenton finds Stephens reading a book that he won't show to her and so they

[00:21:39] flirt about it very intensely as she tries to pry it off of him and when she finally

[00:21:45] does and they're very close to each other's faces, she finds it's a sentimental old

[00:21:52] love story.

[00:21:54] There one of the maids gives her notice because she's going off to marry Charlie, the

[00:21:59] footman.

[00:22:00] Miss Kenton advises her against it because she's seen so many young women get married quickly,

[00:22:07] leave service and then regret it I guess because they're poor and their husbands

[00:22:12] are bums.

[00:22:13] Yep.

[00:22:14] Despite this on her very next day off Miss Kenton goes out with Mr. Ben, the valet

[00:22:21] or he was a valet but he left his Nazi loving employer because Nazis bother him and he says

[00:22:29] he doesn't want to go back to service at all.

[00:22:32] He wants to set up a boarding house in his hometown of Clevedon in the West country.

[00:22:37] We find out that Miss Kenton's name is Sally, well Sarah but Sally for short and

[00:22:43] the two of them have a little make out session and then she cycles home tipsy

[00:22:50] in the rain.

[00:22:51] I think it's a universal oxfrog experience.

[00:22:53] Oh yeah I know it's like yep.

[00:22:55] The old snot in cycle.

[00:22:58] A couple weeks later two big things are going down at Darlington on the same night.

[00:23:03] So first before going out on her night off Miss Kenton tells Stevens that Mr. Ben has

[00:23:09] asked her to marry him and she's thinking about it.

[00:23:13] The second thing Lord Darlington is having a highly secret meeting which is actually

[00:23:19] with the prime minister himself, the one before Churchill, Neville Chamberlain and another

[00:23:25] guy who I actually didn't write down.

[00:23:27] So it's Neville Chamberlain, another guy and the German ambassador and to make things

[00:23:34] more stressful Cardinals shows up snooping around to see what kind of mess his godfather

[00:23:40] has gotten himself into.

[00:23:42] While the meeting is going on Miss Kenton comes home from her night out and tells

[00:23:47] Stevens that she's accepted Mr. Ben's proposal of marriage and she's upset that he won't

[00:23:53] react with anything more than a polite congratulations so she starts to seriously needle him saying

[00:24:02] stuff like she and Mr. Ben like to make fun of him and it doesn't seem to work.

[00:24:08] He laughs it off but then later when Cardinal asks him if he's okay he says again

[00:24:16] a little tired perhaps.

[00:24:18] Cardinal admits that he got a tip off about this meeting and he's there trying to scoop

[00:24:22] a news story.

[00:24:24] He also pleads with Stevens to see that Lord Darlington has been a pawn and is being duped

[00:24:31] into supporting Nazis and that they have to stop him before he makes a terrible mistake.

[00:24:37] But Stevens throughout all of this he can't even, like he cannot care about Nazis or

[00:24:44] what's happening with Lord Darlington or the Prime Minister.

[00:24:48] We can see that on his face and we know why.

[00:24:51] Although at the same time, I don't know so I mean yes at that very moment you can argue

[00:24:58] that Miss Kenton is mine but also if the Miss Kenton thing hadn't happened that night

[00:25:05] his reaction would have still been the same.

[00:25:08] You know he's just incapable and that's the thing I feel so much for this character

[00:25:12] because he's incapable of allowing himself to have his own opinions, to feel,

[00:25:21] to do anything autonomously in a sense.

[00:25:24] I think you're absolutely right but also in that moment I was reading something else on his face

[00:25:31] that said to me I can't even.

[00:25:34] No yeah and it's true no no no I mean and that's one of the things I've

[00:25:38] that he had just been super saturated with these expectations to express emotions that he absolutely

[00:25:44] could not. It's one thing to be confronted with questions about Lord Darlington.

[00:25:53] He's kind of used to that and he's used to batting those away but to have that encounter

[00:26:00] with the person he clearly has deep feelings for put those two together I think it was

[00:26:06] absolutely too much for him we were watching him be completely overwhelmed.

[00:26:11] Yeah and Anthony Hopkins such an amazing actor and that's absolutely amazing.

[00:26:16] The fact that he could convey that and have so little changed his countenance it was amazing.

[00:26:22] It actually reminded me I mean in a weird way about how so

[00:26:27] sorry just sidebar right I love sounds of the lambs is one of my favorite movies.

[00:26:31] I've never seen it. Oh my god it's so fucking good.

[00:26:34] Okay that's not quite true I saw a lot of it when I was about nine at my cousin's house

[00:26:42] but I don't remember very much. So good anyway Anthony Hopkins is absolutely amazing in that

[00:26:49] and this is one scene I mean just for that scene alone right he deserved the Oscar which

[00:26:55] I think he won you know he's animal like he's basically all restrained right he's restrained

[00:27:00] and there's even a mask on his face and it's just his eyes and his voice and he could convey so much

[00:27:08] with literally just half his face and his voice and that scene with him and he and he

[00:27:15] ran in this movie and it reminded me of that you know they're just like he was saying so little

[00:27:21] and being so irish like he was restraining himself physically but so much was coming out of him.

[00:27:29] Absolutely amazing. Not to go on too far of a tangent but I love him paired with Emma Thompson

[00:27:36] and the other film that I'm familiar with the other merchant ivory film that I'm familiar with

[00:27:41] aside from Room With You View is Howard's End in which they play a married couple

[00:27:47] and I love them together so much because her face is such the opposite she has such an

[00:27:54] expressive face you can read her face really really well and so her emotions are very much

[00:28:01] projected outward she wears her heart on her sleeve and he's so good at containing but not

[00:28:09] being able to contain because he's spilling over in such a way that the audience can see what he's

[00:28:15] feeling so I love that pairing. Okay back to this whole love-lorn mess. Miss Kenton so Miss

[00:28:22] Kenton tries to apologize but Stevens is too busy picking out some wine and after going down to the

[00:28:30] wine cellar and breaking a bottle of 1913 red wine he comes back up and he hears Miss Kenton sobbing

[00:28:39] he tiptoes into her room and tells her something that he wanted to tell her for some time

[00:28:47] that the alcove outside the breakfast room has not been dusted and at this point we're all screaming

[00:28:54] yeah I definitely yelled at the TV at this point. Heath was watching with me again and we both were

[00:29:01] just like what is wrong with you? We decided that he has chronic British butleritis. Not even

[00:29:10] British butleritis is okay this is me yes TMI you know having had my fair share of dealing with butlers

[00:29:19] yeah oh yeah you know all the butlers all the butlers yeah my fair share of dating British men

[00:29:25] who are absolutely incapable of dealing with emotions I was just oh to use the words of the

[00:29:34] kids these days triggered I was yelling at the TV so much I was like oh my god go for therapy man Jesus

[00:29:42] did any of these men ever tell you that you needed to dust your alcove? Sure he did

[00:29:52] okay so this ends our time in the past and presumably Miss Kenton left shortly thereafter

[00:30:00] and we're back in the 1950s 20 years after the events of that night back at the boarding

[00:30:06] house Mrs. Ben is trying to leave to go meet Mr. Stevens when her estranged husband Mr. Ben

[00:30:14] he comes to talk to her he says that her daughter is pregnant and he wants her back

[00:30:20] whatever yeah he's very unlikeable with his mustache and I think maybe that's just because

[00:30:27] we kind of know he's a loser and she's left him for reasons that are probably very good but

[00:30:32] also he looks a lot like Mr. Hale from nursing cells I really hate that character

[00:30:39] finally Mrs. Ben and Mr. Stevens meet at a lovely hotel restaurant we hear from Mr. Stevens

[00:30:46] how broken Lord Darlington was after losing his libel suit against the newspaper that called him

[00:30:52] a Nazi sympathizer we also learned that Cardinal was killed in the war which is really gutting

[00:30:58] I hated that and the way in which he said it too you know it was kind of like he just reduced that

[00:31:03] it's just so sad that this one aristocratic character right was trying to treat Stevens

[00:31:10] as like a human being you know and be like come come have a drink with me and all these things

[00:31:15] more than that Cardinal thought they were friends yeah you know he was like oh I'm so looking forward

[00:31:20] to continuing our little nature conversation blah blah blah and then that's all he says about

[00:31:25] he's like oh yeah he's dead or he got killed and that's it was like this one half a sentence you know

[00:31:32] that reminded me so much of just seeing other people talk about deaths in the war

[00:31:38] as a buried trauma thing as well yeah kind of read the national trauma in that sentence

[00:31:44] oh yes he died in the war and just as Stevens is about to ask her to be the housekeeper

[00:31:51] at Darlington again she says that she would have considered going back into service but now that she

[00:31:58] knows she's going to be a grandmother she won't leave the west country she admits that she wonders

[00:32:03] sometimes if leaving Darlington Hall was a terrible mistake and Mr. Stevens says that he supposes we

[00:32:10] all have these thoughts from time to time and so they walk along the pier and he takes her to

[00:32:16] the bus stop in the rain and he tells her to please enjoy these years of her life with her family

[00:32:25] and then apologizes for being so personal as she boards the bus they say goodbye

[00:32:32] and she cries as it drives off and I cried too yes and he just you know and all he does is just

[00:32:39] he looks at her you like dips his little hat or something and oh my god the most emotionally

[00:32:46] charged hat tip oh so heartbreaking back at Darlington Hall everything is being made ready for

[00:32:54] Mr. Lewis in the arrival of his wife he seems like a nice guy at least while he and Stevens are

[00:33:01] chatting in the dining room a pigeon gets in and the two of them shoe it out a big window

[00:33:07] the camera flies away with the pigeon giving us a final view of Darlington Hall as the film ends

[00:33:14] our body's crying no beautiful movie oh I loved it thank you for prompting me to watch another

[00:33:21] merchandise re-film that I hadn't seen before I can't believe that took me so long to see it

[00:33:26] me too I'd known about this this right I mean I knew that it was from the book it's from a book

[00:33:32] by Ishiguro I developed never-ending book and I always wanted to watch the movie it was always on

[00:33:38] my list of things to watch and I can't believe I hadn't watched it till like two weeks ago I was

[00:33:43] thinking back to like why do I love this movie so much is this whole like super imposing of

[00:33:50] the private versus a very public and political backdrop you know that's there it is very present

[00:33:59] I mean this whole thing is literally about you know the lead up to the war right with the peaceman

[00:34:04] the war which isn't shown and then then you kind of get to post war you know and the characters are

[00:34:11] very much involved in it I mean these are key characters right I mean the prime minister comes

[00:34:15] in and this is whole thing about the aristocrats and how they're essentially still trying to

[00:34:21] run the country yeah towards the end of their time and all of these things are all very very

[00:34:27] real public social things issues are happening you know and then on top of it this very personal

[00:34:37] yet so it's meant to be personal but the thing is you never get to see what's actually

[00:34:43] actually going on in Stevens' mind right because he never expresses it you kind of infer

[00:34:49] it through the great genius of Anthony Hopkins you know yeah what do they call it um the middross

[00:34:56] like the reading the white space around the text yeah yeah and and yeah I just thought it was just

[00:35:03] done so bloody well and it was all I think this is that's the thing it's all about spaces

[00:35:08] you know this is my sorry my literary mind is thinking right you think about even the timeline

[00:35:13] right it's like okay in the 30s and then there's that liberate blank space of the war

[00:35:19] you know and that empty space is so filled because you know what happened and then comes the post war

[00:35:26] period and it's kind of like the the strength and the potency I guess of these spaces

[00:35:33] we are what is what is left unsaid uh yeah so I don't know I just got to me I love that as well

[00:35:40] and it's something I really love about period dramas where you can have something as big and

[00:35:45] epic as events that shape the fate of the whole world but at the same time we have what we're

[00:35:53] more concerned about really which is the fate of some one person's whole world yeah or two people's

[00:36:00] whole world and that one person with this very small life this very small world is still

[00:36:10] a universe unto themselves that we love and care about yeah and who just

[00:36:17] fucks shit up constantly for himself okay okay right before we get to the serious bit so let's

[00:36:24] just have a little bit of a break it's gonna say a few things and a bit of trivia so the movie

[00:36:34] was great nominated for eight academy awards best picture best director best actor best actress

[00:36:41] best screenplay adapted from another medium best original music score best costume design and best

[00:36:46] art direction set decoration but it didn't win anything and what apparently it was because

[00:36:53] it was up against things like shindles list oh so you know that's how it goes right you know

[00:36:58] it's great the movie as it is how can you compete so didn't win any of these eight

[00:37:05] oscar nominations bits of stuff about the actors and today hopkins i think they and even the filmmakers

[00:37:14] right they were all worried that they didn't have any experience of how a country house is run

[00:37:20] you know and this is carking back to our glossford park episode right this whole upstairs

[00:37:25] downstairs you know what is all the intricacies of the downstairs right all yeah i remember us

[00:37:31] talking about how julian fellows did this intensive research about how a country house like this was

[00:37:38] run and everybody's role yeah exactly so what they did was they hired this man called siril

[00:37:47] dickman who served for 50 years at barkingham palace the ultimate country house yeah right so

[00:37:56] yeah so he was the retired steward grinellis berth II and then he also brought in others who were

[00:38:03] experienced in doing things the right way and they educated filmmakers and anthony hopkins

[00:38:11] on how to play these roles and i thought that was pretty cool so the part of miss kenton could have

[00:38:19] been played by meryl streep wow yeah um i'm glad i mean i love meryl streep but i'm glad she didn't

[00:38:28] play it me too this needed to be emma thompson i think definitely i mean i don't know how true

[00:38:36] this fact that i read is it says that basically there was a larger budget and then the budget was

[00:38:43] slashed and that's part of the reason why meryl streep went through again not sure but any case

[00:38:50] she wasn't it it was emma thompson and we love her for it but i also read get this

[00:38:58] john cleese of a monty python was offered the role of james stevens of stevens can you not

[00:39:08] not lord darlington no stevens john cleese john cleese 40 towers john cleese

[00:39:15] john cleese from the bureau of silly walks exactly yeah it was going to be

[00:39:20] was going to be mr stevens the butler in remains of the day yes but because apparently there was

[00:39:26] this whole thing where herald pinter wrote the original screenplay was it meant to be more of a

[00:39:32] company it was meant to be that it was a bit to be more yeah there's more humor and then after that

[00:39:37] when all the humorous bits were taken out john cleese withdrew i mean which makes sense right

[00:39:41] can you bloody imagine him doing this role i mean it would have been a career shift but i

[00:39:47] can understand why he decided to pass it up yeah also i like to think that the one thing they

[00:39:53] kept in the script from all of the humor was just that conversation between stevens and cargnell

[00:40:04] about the birds and the bees what if they just forgot to delete it and then everyone just thought it

[00:40:11] was part of the final draft on purpose even though it was always an accident so they just left it

[00:40:16] in and now it's just this like scene that that sticks out and is really confusing but also beautiful

[00:40:22] and we need it it's so good okay here's another fact because we both love pristopher wreath so apparently

[00:40:29] his son will read that that this india hometown in bedford new york this local movie theater

[00:40:38] is going through this rebrand and they reached out said they wanted to screen a film of his choice

[00:40:44] of his father and then he said sure but we're not going to do superman we're going to do

[00:40:51] remains of the day yeah so he said that his father was so proud of his role in the movie

[00:40:57] because he got to show a different side of himself i mean it's not he wasn't proud of superman he was

[00:41:02] but this was a very different and very important role for him and i just thought that was so sweet

[00:41:07] right so and he was really good in this role and i know i've already mentioned this but

[00:41:17] it really pains me to remember that we could have seen so many more rich roles from him as he aged

[00:41:24] yeah so i've never read the book right but apparently in the screenplay they conflated two

[00:41:30] characters into one so the character jack louis that chris wary plays it's actually a composite

[00:41:38] of two different people so there was the senator jack louis and then there was another guy

[00:41:47] called faraday who bought the another american guy who bought the dsd so i didn't get it i would i

[00:41:53] you'd i get it that's just like you know might as well you gotta give christopher reave the biggest

[00:41:58] role you can't and you can't have two americans i know this movie that's too many americans exactly

[00:42:03] it's much an ivory baby so there we go that's my that's my little fun bits i did a lot of well

[00:42:11] reading about appeasement world war two and stuff but it's so hard and stressful to try to like

[00:42:19] squeeze everything what are you talking about just explain to me in the next five minutes

[00:42:26] everything that led up to the second world war great world war one happened

[00:42:31] journey was playing for it 3d of a cyrus was signed journey germany was screwed

[00:42:39] they weren't happy hitler started you know the hitler was rising england and france

[00:42:49] hitler's rising kim takes a kim takes a swig of her austrian wine all right so but no but seriously

[00:42:56] so what was happening was okay so we're talking about this is the fourth world war one pre-world

[00:43:02] war two right so countries like france and britain especially decided to take this strategy known as

[00:43:09] appeasement which can be defined as a strategy of diplomatic concessions aimed at placating or

[00:43:16] buying off a potential aggressor so this is designed to achieve international security you know so that

[00:43:22] was what the basically we're trying to appease hitler and to avoid world war two so in in the

[00:43:29] international relations community would we call this the giving up your lunch money strategy yeah

[00:43:38] exactly they were like oh no more than you're like come let me buy you lunch okay yeah you know

[00:43:44] it was like hey hey bro hey hitler come let's all have lunch together it's cool it's cool i got it

[00:43:50] i got it you know you don't have to pay you're part of the crew yeah you know and we don't invade

[00:43:57] members of the crew no we don't but so they're all these strong feelings right there was this whole

[00:44:03] you know okay the world war one was the worst thing right that's ever happened they saw the atrocities

[00:44:08] of world world war one they were like right never again never again all these countries

[00:44:13] were also not militarily ready for another war you know and great depression also had happened

[00:44:21] many british people actually believe that they didn't blame germany for being pissed off from the

[00:44:27] defeat the other side you know and it really crippled it crippled germany a lot and they're like

[00:44:34] yeah maybe it's a bit too much so all that was happening then you have prime minister neville

[00:44:42] chamberlin like actually going up and budding up to hitler the Munich agreement saying yeah yeah

[00:44:48] hey everything's cool you know and he kind of like he believed that hitler really wasn't going to do

[00:44:52] anything you know it was like right we'll let them retake part of the ryan land which they

[00:44:57] were so weren't supposed to do everything is fine it's okay it's okay and i remember that part

[00:45:03] where some rich english dudes are talking about him invading Czechoslovakia and they're like

[00:45:09] well you can't really blame them for just invading their own backyard exactly they were kind of seeing

[00:45:15] how far it would go and obviously we all know what happened right hitler was like yep screw you guys

[00:45:22] i'm just gonna go invade Poland boom start war but what i'm interested in and what this movie

[00:45:28] focuses on is the role of not so much the politicians themselves but the everyday aristocrats

[00:45:36] you know and let me know your common garden variety english aristocrat yeah i was like what the hell

[00:45:43] kind of what conference are they having you know what i mean it's like i do invite people to my house

[00:45:49] and call it a conference you know you should well well clearly Alice you and i are having a

[00:45:53] conference in a week and a half because i'm going all the way to Edinburgh i'm really looking forward

[00:45:58] to our podcasting conference are you gonna be serving pheasant no you know i don't eat

[00:46:03] pheasant and you know why i can't believe you're bringing this up i i think we should also maybe

[00:46:10] discuss some global politics so yeah yeah and feel like we actually can make some headway in it but

[00:46:17] that's the thing though it wasn't just them talking right that there was a scary part of it it's

[00:46:21] not just a bunch of people going hey let's all come for this fancy as dinner and drink wine

[00:46:27] and talk about shit and call it a conference i mean they actually had some sort of sway and

[00:46:35] they had representatives from the countries in action like actually there to represent those

[00:46:42] countries and then bring some kind of message back yeah and that was to people in real power yeah

[00:46:48] but that was the scariest thing and what was happening was so a lot of the british aristocrats

[00:46:54] were sympathizing with fascism in general because they kind of saw it as an alternative to their fears

[00:47:04] of communism socialism democracy that was happening that was going to bring the aristocrats down

[00:47:11] and in that horrible scene right where that that bully of a dickhead mr mr. Darlington's friend

[00:47:17] right was trying to quiz Stevens right to prove that the common man is uninformed

[00:47:22] exactly yeah so that was that's pretty much what was happening you're like see you see you know

[00:47:27] these people don't know what the hell they're doing we need to take charge where better to the

[00:47:31] point where Stevens also in a way kind of internalizes it right and then i can't remember

[00:47:37] who he was having a conversation with was it miss Kenton or maybe not where he's saying that

[00:47:42] you know they are our betters not just in like social hierarchy but also our intellectual

[00:47:49] betters our moral betters yeah and this whole entrenchment of the class system and the idea

[00:47:57] that these people know better and they believe they know better this whole thing with the

[00:48:01] aristocrats and their involvement in the war well in appeasement and in fascism was interesting

[00:48:09] because you have links between the british royal family and aristocrats in germany as well in real

[00:48:17] life of course yeah the british family and and the german royal family were intermarrying for

[00:48:25] generations yeah so in 1933 the guy who abdicated right he said of the nazi regime quote it's the

[00:48:38] only thing to do we will have to come to it we are in great danger from communists too you know

[00:48:43] and he was like cozying up to them so i should probably tell you my sources some of them which we

[00:48:50] will put in our show notes there was a couple of articles from the guardian one was a book review

[00:48:57] called appeasing hitler and another one was an article also about the guardian because you know

[00:49:04] i'm a left-wing guardian reading person obviously what what was it that that's

[00:49:10] suella about brabberman calls us what tofu eating something something guardian reading

[00:49:18] walkeratis yep that's me so yeah so yeah that makes this sound fashionable i know right i'm a

[00:49:25] walkerati so there we go so a couple articles from the guardian an article from history extra

[00:49:32] was our dear friend wikipedia why not as well as the wayback machine in the internet archive

[00:49:38] so these are some of the things which i have helped to educate me so there was this angler german duke

[00:49:46] of coberg he was constantly moving between britain and germany and kind of doing exactly that you

[00:49:53] know he was like passing messages around and essentially using this country house of his sister

[00:49:59] for meetings with british politicians and his sister was married to the brother of queen

[00:50:06] mary so you can see all of these connections going on and then again i already referenced king

[00:50:13] adbert later duke of winza and his political leanings which is kind of like interestingly

[00:50:21] alluded to in one of the episodes of the crown so after he advocated right and then we have george

[00:50:29] the sixth and his wife george the sixth coming through the throne apparently hitler was trying

[00:50:35] to you know cozy up to them as well in a sense but obviously when war happened they had no choice

[00:50:44] but to step back even though george the fifth did support chamberlain's appeasement policy

[00:50:51] you know when war happened i mean yeah and chape what's the space church hill i'm not

[00:50:57] necessarily a fan of church hill we won't go into that but he was anti-appeasement yeah

[00:51:04] this does not mean to say that he was an anti-alot about other bad things as in but again we're not

[00:51:10] going to go into that you can dislike nazis and still be a dick exactly yeah you know so

[00:51:19] he was not happy with it and he was like yep told you so this happened so yeah so there was just

[00:51:27] what i have to say about aristocrats and fascism apologies in advance if this is a little bit of a

[00:51:35] rant but we're talking about how all of these wealthy men got together and decided that they

[00:51:43] could influence the politics of the day and it's all just make believe but it had a real

[00:51:51] effect on people's lives so the movie is depicting how one actually kind of nice guy

[00:51:58] with noble intentions gets duped by this game of pretend and gets roped into supporting nazis

[00:52:09] but at the same time we have this other equally important story i think about how Stevens

[00:52:16] as someone who's in service who is a servant is also being duped by this great lie complicated

[00:52:27] by the english aristocracy that he is doing something that is somehow noble and dignified

[00:52:36] for him to completely deny himself and empty himself and make himself devoid of his own humanity

[00:52:46] in the service of the aristocracy and that is the thing that i think breaks my heart

[00:52:56] almost as much as watching their the hands of Emma Thompson and Anthony Hopkins separate

[00:53:03] as she's driven away by that bus and since you talked about Cyril Dickman there was a quote from

[00:53:11] Cyril Dickman when he was talking about being a butler what it means to be a butler kind of

[00:53:17] capturing the essence of that he said there's nothing to being a butler really when you're in

[00:53:24] the room it should be even more empty wow and that line really did something to me

[00:53:31] because i think Anthony Hopkins embodied that in a way we saw that he was the quintessential butler

[00:53:39] he did such an amazing job but in a way he broke through that because he's reaching us

[00:53:48] on the other side of the screen so we're seeing that really he is filled with emotion he is

[00:53:57] filled to the brim with so much humanity there's so much Stevens in there it reminds me and i'm

[00:54:05] telling on myself a little bit but you know in Star Trek Vulcans are known for being

[00:54:12] emotionless and logical but really we learn that in truth they're full of emotion they get

[00:54:21] full of rage and they just learn to stamp it down and that reminds me of Stevens

[00:54:28] but in a much more tragic way because it's real and human and this is what people had to do

[00:54:36] and that was magnified for me a bit because and like in the film i wasn't really sure because

[00:54:43] i don't know that much about servants lives i didn't know could they have had a relationship

[00:54:52] the the implication in the film is that people get married and then they leave service and then

[00:54:59] they don't have the same income they don't have the same status they don't have good lives

[00:55:05] but i found out later that actually butlers could marry housekeepers and it wasn't that on common

[00:55:14] and we see this in Downton Abbey oh yeah yeah when the butler and the housekeeper eventually get

[00:55:21] married in a later season so there's aside from his own pathological self-denial and service of Lord

[00:55:31] Darlington there there's nothing wrong with him wanting to marry the housekeeper he could have

[00:55:39] done it yeah yeah yeah for sure they could they could have been a little housekeeper butler duo

[00:55:44] like i said part of me wonders you know to what extent he uses these artificial strictures right

[00:55:52] around him as a way to go oh well oh no i couldn't possibly well i can't i can't marry her anyway

[00:56:01] because it's against the rules so that seems to be something to hide behind and i was curious to

[00:56:08] you know so you know the book scene right the book scene so i was watching it and then i was like oh my

[00:56:14] god what is it what is it is it is it is it mind camp is it something horrible is he a nazi you know

[00:56:21] yeah like we're gonna learn that all along he actually has been a nazi sympathizer yeah that's

[00:56:26] why he loves Lord Darlington yeah and it was like it's a romance novel and you're just like what

[00:56:32] but then i was trying to like reconcile that with him right why would of all the books that he has access

[00:56:41] to right presumably maybe borrowed this from Lord Darlington's library of all the books why would

[00:56:47] he choose that you know i mean like you would think that he would be reading something from

[00:56:51] the greek stoic so you know cissor or whatever right about this is for you know for his emotional

[00:56:57] education because that's the that's the real him yeah yeah mr stevens is a falcon

[00:57:05] yeah but he's full of passion there's so much to impact in this film and i also wonder if he

[00:57:13] just thought that at that point he couldn't be in a romantic relationship because in reality

[00:57:19] what if he doesn't know about the birds and the bees no and he's afraid or ashamed of that

[00:57:25] there must be a lot of fear involved in changing your life so much that you let someone into it

[00:57:32] in such an intimate way when you never have before yeah hell i love this character i love them both

[00:57:39] i want them to be together and happy but instead we get this beautiful beautiful movie

[00:57:45] and i wish i could say more like snarky or funny things about it but i really can't

[00:57:52] i have i have an award oh great okay you want to give it all right give it so completely not

[00:58:00] in keeping with any of our discussion of this film so far i would like to award

[00:58:06] remains of the day with the award of best bobblehead where did you notice that what they call the

[00:58:17] chinamen oh the statue which is almost a meter tall it's this very big porcelain or stone

[00:58:28] statue of a man in some kind of historic chinese dress it took me a minute to realize

[00:58:37] that in several scenes its head moves its head is detached and it does a little wavy

[00:58:43] bobbly thing and i don't understand why and it's creepy i love it so much brilliant where did it come

[00:58:51] from amazing it's the best bobblehead it's the only bobblehead i've ever seen in a period drama

[00:58:57] i'm gonna have to look out for them now but i don't think anyone's gonna top that oh well

[00:59:04] you've definitely topped my award my award was something we already covered which is most

[00:59:10] awkward discussion of sex in a period drama absolutely and i love that it ended in hu grant

[00:59:20] talking about how much he loves and that got me thinking of ru paul and how you know like fish

[00:59:29] fishy and stuff right yeah so listeners basically it's a slang for lady parts lady parts i'm telling

[00:59:41] you they did not realize that they hadn't deleted this yeah definitely right oh my god it was so good

[00:59:48] oh it's like can you imagine hu ghan trying not to laugh while having to act out the scene

[00:59:56] in all earnestness he's so earnest yeah can you imagine this scene being lifted out and presented

[01:00:05] with like no context yeah yeah we're just like what and then just you would think this movie was a

[01:00:13] comedy you really would yeah and then you watched the rest of it and you're like here's a great

[01:00:17] clip from remains of the day yeah it's ancine hopkins and hu grant having a little jolly

[01:00:22] about birds and bees and in yu rendo about fish yes i'd like to end with a little apology for my

[01:00:29] lack of eloquence in when talking about appeasement and british aristocrats fascination with fascism

[01:00:37] it's because talking about world war two and everything to do with world war two stresses me

[01:00:42] out because i know that there are so many amazing you know you have i'm not even talking about

[01:00:49] academics yeah i'm talking about regular people who are interested in the history of war okay and i have

[01:00:58] them i have like the auras around me just like frowning at me and i was like i don't know i mean

[01:01:06] i i i i i have absorbed these things but i can't like put sentences together i'm like people i'm a

[01:01:14] 19th century person i that's it okay so yeah you go go go go look at the show notes that's it

[01:01:23] i think by now people understand that we are first and foremost two kind dumb lovers of period

[01:01:31] dramas who have time enough to search the internet for things and sometimes read books yeah and

[01:01:40] present things to you and as affable away as possible yeah what's important is that everybody

[01:01:48] got a real long lecture about why rich people bad yes yes yes and and also show your emotions

[01:01:57] and go to therapy yeah oh um if rich people bad eat them with oolingam berry socks

[01:02:07] what does he say in in silence of the oh i love him love oh he's they said um so he says he says

[01:02:15] to have them with with a nice kyan see and some fava beans okay that's what he does though

[01:02:26] so can i say go and give a hug to local amateur world war two historian

[01:02:33] and then eat the rich with a nice kyan tea and some fava beans yay and the end and then please

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[01:03:14] and i gotta go yeah i gotta go i'm gonna because i got a real dusty alcove to deal with it has

[01:03:21] not been tended to for some time i mean all right sure i'm just gonna finish drinking my wine

[01:03:28] who hitler why am i hitler why good night

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